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Becoming by Michelle Obama

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By Michelle Obama

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In a life filled with meaning and accomplishment, Michelle Obama has emerged as one of the most iconic and compelling women of our era.

As First Lady of the United States of America – the first African-American to serve in that role – she helped create the most welcoming and inclusive White House in history, while also establishing herself as a powerful advocate for women and girls in the U.S. and around the world, dramatically changing the ways that families pursue healthier and more active lives, and standing with her husband as he led America through some of its most harrowing moments.

Along the way, she showed us a few dance moves, crushed Carpool Karaoke, and raised two down-to-earth daughters under an unforgiving media glare. In her memoir, a work of deep reflection and mesmerizing storytelling, Michelle Obama invites readers into her world, chronicling the experiences that have shaped her – from her childhood on the South Side of Chicago to her years as an executive balancing the demands of motherhood and work, to her time spent at the world’s most famous address.

With unerring honesty and lively wit, she describes her triumphs and her disappointments, both public and private, telling her full story as she has lived it – in her own words and on her own terms.


21 Jul 2021

I don't read much non-fiction, but agreed to read this as part of a Zoom book club that I have going with a couple of teacher friends who it is tricky to see due to Covid-19.
It has taken me a while to get through this, as it is very long (perhaps a little too long), but an informative and enjoyable read, offering real insights into the writer's own life, right back to her childhood. I particularly enjoyed learning about how she met Barack and the development of their relationship, as well as a behind the scenes account of life in the White House.
I would recommend this book to anyone interested in American Politics and to women looking to see how, despite not having been born with a 'silver spoon', it is possible to push through and achieve your goals.

29 Jun 2021

I always enjoy reading autobiographies. This book was no different. Very engaging and captivating. It was like getting some insights into the private thoughts of someone - when normally you would just have to wonder as this person is "unreachable". It is a very relatable book and given the current climate of the world, where race and gender issues are concerned, I think this book is very inspiring, for women and young girls alike, especially those of the BAME community. I would absolutely recommend this book a good read to anyone.

08 Apr 2021


This was our first meeting via Zoom which went pretty well.

We all felt that Michelle is the person she is because of her home life. We felt that her parents and her close bonds with her family made her a strong and confident woman. Possibly without that family grounding her and giving her the confidence she might not have managed to achieve everything that she did. Although she did have a tough childhood and often felt that she didn't quite fit into each part of her life, this created a woman who understands that people can come from all sorts of backgrounds.

We all understood that we came at this book from a place of privilege as we're all white middle class women so we can't fully understand the things that Michelle went through. We can never understand what it's like to be judged as a black person, but we can learn from her experience. But reading this book has given us the ability to learn about her life and possibly the lives of other people in her position. This book was a learning experience for us on many different levels. Firstly to be able to read about the life of a black woman, to see the world through her eyes, plus to be able to learn more about the American political system.

Michelle pulls no punches in this book and there are some parts that are hard to read, both due to what they deal with and also feeling what Michelle was going through. She had to make some tough decisions in her life with Barack and also prior to her life with him. She made an enormous decision to move away from her work as a lawyer and to move more towards public service. This was a tough thing to do for many reasons and we all wondered if we would have the strength of character to do this in our own lives. Many in the group felt that if it was something they felt in their heart they had to do then they would do it. But we also realised that this type of change is easier for some people to do than others depending on the support they got.

Overall we gave this book 6 out of 10 with marks ranging from 4 to 9. The lower marks were often just due to a dislike of biographies, autobiographies.

06 Aug 2019


19 Jun 2019

Overall the book was very intriguing, particularly as I had not previously huge amounts about Michelle beforehand.

02 May 2019


An inspirational read that we all enjoyed. Many of us downloaded the audio version too and as it is read by Michelle you get a unique feel for the book. My book group, The Bookclub Dozen read this book and we were all still discussing it two hours later!
We used the questions shared by the publisher and it made for an interesting debate during the evening.
We were also very lucky to see Michelle Obama at the O2 and wow what an evening. The icing on the cake after reading this book.

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